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Jim Lewis

December 21st, 1938 - May 23rd, 2014

75 Years of an amazing life

A Celebration of Jim's Life

As per Jim's wishes, there was no funeral or visitation. Friends and family attended our celebrations of his life in Burlington and Toronto.

Celebration of Jim's Life Presentation

Royal Botanical Gardens - Burlington

This happened on Monday May 26th and we had a very large turnout. Thanks for supporting Judy. We played dad's Celebration of Live video four times so everyone could get a good look.

Mimico Cruising Club - Toronto

We enjoyed a lovely afternoon on Thursday May 29th at MCC with so many friends and family. Thanks to everyone for supporting our family and celebrating Dad's life together.

Obituary

LEWIS, James David "Jim" Peacefully at Joseph Brant Hospital, Burlington on Friday, May 23, 2014 at the age of 75. Beloved husband of Judy Lewis (nee Church). Loving father of Jennifer Lawson (Bruce) of Dundas and Jeff Lewis (Keiko) of Australia. Cherished Grandpa of Sarah, Akira, Emma and Tetsuya. Jim is survived by his sister Marian Wilson. He will also be fondly remembered by his sisters-in-law Nancy Cuttle (Rick) of Milton and Ann Culham of Saskatoon. Pre- deceased by his brothers-in-law John Wilson and Victor Culham. Special thank you to the numerous caring doctors, nurses and health providers who have contributed to Jim's quality of life. As per Jim's wish, cremation has taken place. There will be 2 informal Celebration of Life receptions - 1 in Burlington and 1 in Toronto so friends can choose which one they would like to attend. Details will be posted on https://www.jdl.co/jim. (Arrangements entrusted to SMITH'S FUNERAL HOME, BURLINGTON 905-632-3333). In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in his memory are asked to please consider supporting the Joseph Brant Hospital Building Fund.

What happened?

Jim has been fighting a wide range of illnesses for the last few years, but as many of you know, he has been able to maintain a reasonably active lifestyle.

Last Saturday night Judy and Jim went to the Shaw Theatre and dinner with the Seedhouses and Solomatenkos. On Sunday Jim, Judy and Erica Heim enjoyed a wonderful outing and lunch at one of their favourite spots - The Good Earth near Beamsville.

The following morning he was not feeling well and was admitted to emergency and then the ICU with a bacterial infection that overwhelmed his organs. Thanks to the medical team at Joseph Brant Hospital, he did not suffer and was kept sedated until Friday at noon when he passed away quietly with Judy, Jennifer and Jeff at his side.

This was a shock to us all and thankfully immediate family could say goodbye.

Jim

Jeff and Jennifer know Jim Lewis as their loving father... Judy knows Jim as the love of her life, her school-days sweetheart, her loving husband...and since joining MCC a dozen or so years ago; my wife Terri and I have been privileged to know Jim as the yachtsman, Jim as our guiding hand and mentor, and Jim... our really GOOD friend.

When Terri and I joined the club and first met Jim, he had, after many years of sailing, made the "big switch" to the dark side, and was the proud Skipper of a very BIG power boat. "Cariad" seemed about twice the size of our humble 26 foot cruiser, Meta IV.

And we found ourselves in awe of this guy...he knew everybody, he had been around the club for years, and he had reached the heights of Flag Rank...but NEVER, not once, did he express the slightest hint of snobbishness. Jim welcomed our companionship and our company, he mentored us through all of our early connections within the club, and he made us feel important and engaged!

As we got to know Jim, he encouraged us to bring Meta IV on frequent afternoon cruises to the North... meaning from A Dock to North Shore! He would insist we tie up alongside Cariad...which seemed like the Queen Mary looming over us!

Jim loved that boat and would insist we come aboard for a drink, or to check out his latest GPS setup or to show off his lovely custom teak & holly cabin sole installation. And Jim and Judy would always INSIST that there was an extra chunk of chicken to toss on the barbecue, and ALWAYS an open bottle of wine. Jim, to us, became the personification of gracious hospitality.

And on his frequent reciprocal visits to Meta IV on A Dock, Jim would demonstrate the respect normally accorded a million dollar fifty footer. He would go out of his way to step OVER, not ON our varnished teak entry trim...and would VOCALLY make sure anyone else present did the same!

At the helm of Cariad, he would address his crew (that's Judy) with affection! His docking strategies, pretty much unchanged since his sailboat days... Judy up on the fore deck with her arms full of dock lines and fenders, dock neighbours running up and down the finger trying to snag lines while Jim CHARGED into his slip under the pressure of two BIG 454 cubic inch V8 engines...had him ENCOURAGING his Bride with helpful hints in a loud voice and frequent religious references... "Jesus Christ" comes to mind.

In fact, on his frequent fueling runs to Port Credit (Cariad had a BIG appetite) he would use exactly the same pseudonym to display his affection for boats that he would encounter under sail ...particularly those tacking across his track as he was exiting our harbour!

Jim knew everything about our club, and he knew everybody. He took pains to guide Terri and I, step by step, through the start-up of what is now our MCC Power Fleet...encouraging us, making sure that we avoided mis-steps and observed the appropriate protocols.

To Terri and I, Jim IS that great guy with the affable nature, the past-Commodore with the big grin, the firm welcoming hand shake... and the big bear-hugs!

Most importantly, Jim had a remarkable talent for being OUR BEST friend, of making us feel that WE were very special within the MCC environment.

And, the truly remarkable thing, as it turns out, is that he has made so many of us feel that way...that each and every one of us deserved...and got... his special attention.

And we have come to know that Jim is even more than that. No one person can singly build a wonderful and unique organization like MCC. But, as my friend David Wakefield observed just a few days ago, we have lost one of the good ones! Jim contributed VASTLY more than most, and all of us here today can take heart in the MANY contributions that Jim Lewis made to this club. In the days, months, and years ahead, we will all continue to REVEL in the fruits of his labours.

We can take pride and comfort that this part of Jim Lewis lives on.

Richard Pickering
May 29th 2014

Anecdotes and Memories about Jim

- Judy, Jennifer and Jeff

Rest in peace, my friend, free of pain.

- Jack & Kathy Seedhouse

Al and I are very sad to hear of Jim's passing and we send our most sincere sympathy to all your family. We have been friends with Jim and Judy for many, many years (40 years?) and have enjoyed such fun times together. We have made many lovely memories – a great time spent together in Padstow, England, our wonderful fun days in St. Georges Show, our curling bonspiels, time on the boat, and our annual "Christmas" lunch/dinner together, just to mention a few of our happy times. Our hearts are sad and are very much with you and the family at this difficult time.

- Ruth and Al Boake

I remember our family going on vacation to a lake up north. We rented a cottage and Jim helped to get our cat back when it ran away. When I was little our mother would tell Jim to look after me. I know he never liked having to look after his little sister, so I appreciate that he did! Jim taught me how to play bridge because he and his friends could never get a fourth. I always felt thrilled and very grown-up to be playing with my big brother Jim and his friends. I loved being a bridesmaid at Jim and Judy's wedding. Years later, it was wonderful to have Jim and Judy visit us when John and I were living on the boat. I will miss my big brother.

- Marian Wilson (Jim's sister)

One day in our parking garage, I was about to go to the elevator when Jim came by, stopped his car and asked 'Do you want a ride home?'... Always the jovial humour!

-Sonja, The Maples

Jim should win the award for the best son-in-law ever. He survived

• a rabies shot from his father-in-law (while attempting to administer a shot to his dog).
• three separate occasions when his father-in-law backed into his car and drove away.
• eating his father-in-law's midnight Turkey sandwich leftovers that were laced with blood.
• his father-in-law's surprise, uninvited, and snoring appearance in a Sudbury hotel bed on a business trip when there were no other available hotel rooms.

-Nancy, Sister-in-law

Uncle Jim was a second Dad for us and such a huge part of all of our memories growing up. He always took the group pictures down the tables at every family meal and usually caught at least one person with food in their mouth. He was the one who gave me my first beer at one of those dinners... probably around age 7, which I did not have more the one disgusted sip of. I learned a valuable lesson in not calling a generous man's bluff :) He was always quick with a laugh and a bear hug and I adore the fact that he teared up when welcoming both Tristan and Olivia to our family. But perhaps more, I loved that mischievous twinkle in his eyes.

- Jill (Niece)

Even when he asked me not to call him Uncle (saying so made him feel old), I still called Jim, 'Uncle Jim'. Uncle Jim was my first babysitter. While I was too young to remember it, I've heard the story so many times it feels like my own memory. My mom was in bed with the 'Sunday morning flu' so Uncle Jim, visiting the Cuttle clan in B.C. had baby Cate duty. Apparently, I didn't make it easy for him! Fortunately, he was a very forgiving man. I will miss his big smile and loving heart.

- Cate (Niece)

Dear Judy, Jeff and Jennifer: It is with great sadness that we write this message on the death of your husband and father, Jim. We can't quite believe it yet, as we were to meet Jim and Judy for the Annual Lobster Fest dinner at Mimico Cruising Club this coming weekend. It was at Mimico that we first met Jim and Judy. It was on a weekend cruise to Niagara On The Lake, I believe, and Judy and Jim came across the room to greet the newcomers. It has been a great friendship ever since. Always inclusive, either at the boat club, and later, in Burlington. In reading over the other comments on this site, I have to agree that Jim was the first to greet you with a smile and that big bear hug of his. My Jim and Jim Lewis shared many adventures together. There will be a large vacuum to fill in his absence. Our sincerest condolences to you Judy and your family.

- Jackie and Jim Southcott

I felt such heaviness in my heart writing this as there are so many memories that span decades with the Lewis family that are heartfelt and difficult to put in writing. Mr. Lewis always greeted me with his warm smile and his love for his family immediately comes to my mind, his kindness, his compassion, his pride in his children and grandchildren. Always asking How are you? How are things? Not just asking to ask but caring, offering his advice and words of wisdom. Jeff and I were always great friends, high school friends and I don't think there was a time that I had met Mr. Lewis in the driveway of my parents home where he did not share photos and updates on Jeff, Jennifer and his grandchildren with such pride and joy. The best neighbours, our parents were friends and when they made the move to Burlington I know a void was felt next door, they as well had such respect for Jim. Our families shared many dinners and fond memories together, us as teenagers and now with our own families. He will truly be missed! In life you meet people that leave an impression on you and for me Mr. Lewis was one of those people. I loved him dearly and will miss him!

- Darinka Opacic (Maric)

We thought Great Uncle Jim was very funny. We loved listening to the funny stories that Grandma would tell us about her brother. We really loved the digital advent calendars that he would send to us every Christmas. It was very thoughtful of him to do that.

- Michael, Jack & Lauren (children of Jim's niece Kophy)

Whenever we would chat, Jim would always talk about how proud he was of his kids and grandkids, and how happy and well they were doing. Jim always enjoyed a good laugh and he was my most reliable source of the latest online jokes making the rounds.

- Paul (married to Jim's niece Kophy)

When I reached a certain age, Jim wanted me to stop calling him "Uncle". It didn't seem natural for me to just call him "Jim", so we shared an ongoing joke of me referring to him as "No prefix Jim".

- Kophy (Jim's niece)

Dad had unconditional love for his kids and grand-kids. He never criticized any of us and always supported us in our daily lives.

-Jeff and Sarah, Son and Granddaughter

As a teen, Dad knew when I was having a bad day. He would take me to Sherway and spoil me with something special. We always held hands as we shopped.

-Jen, Daughter

He hired me as Manager of Mimico Cruising Club and I worked with him on the executive and committees for 20 years. He was a huge supporter of the Club and boating in Toronto and will be missed.

Ken Greig - past manager, Mimico Cruising Club

Dad's favourite quote - "It'll put hair on your chest". It didn't really help convince the women.

- Jeff

Jim, Mr. Lewis as I called him, gave the best bear hugs ever, always greeted me with the biggest, warmest smile imaginable and made me feel that I was special just for being me. He had a nickname for me; I wish I could remember what it was. I spent a fair bit of time with the Lewis family when I was in high school. A number of times Jen and I had sleepovers on the boat while it was docked at the yacht club. Jim would drop us off, make sure we were tucked in and return the next morning to wake us with hash browns and egg McMuffins. Such a lovely man. I remember him with genuine fondness.

- Sarah MacKenzie, a friend of Jen and Jeff

Wow, so many memories going back nearly 40 years. Jeff and I begging our parents for just one more night of sleepover. Winter days spent tobogganing with your dad at the local hill. More recently, when I first started to date my future wife Liza, one of our first outings was dinner with your parents at the old homestead in Etobicoke. All in all, a man that I was always fond of and admired. We will certainly miss his larger-than-life personality and sense of humour. May he rest in peace.

- Chris Duggan

My sincere condolences and heart felt sympathy to you and your family. Was so pleased to have had a chance to travel a bit with Jim last summer. I am sorry for you all. Jim was a great man and I'm sure will leave a big hole.

I'll be thinking of you all these next days and weeks.

- Linda Brown

So terribly sorry to hear of Jim's final departure.. I have been out of touch for these past few years and it was a shock to read your email Jeff, please please pass on to your lovely mother our deepest sympathy. He was a larger than life sort of character and we had such fun together many years ago in the summer of 1958 when I rode pillion on the back of his motor bike to ride hell for leather due North after midnight coming home as the sun rose. He was full of laughs and enthusiasm about the future and what great adventures lay ahead for him. Wonderful memories of a brief time shared.

- Judith Walker (Jim's second cousin)

Oh Jeff and Jennifer and Judy. I am so sad to hear this news. He was like an uncle to me in every way. Our thoughts go out to all of you. He was a wonderful man.

- Glen Beaumont

We are so sorry to hear about your Dad. In this instance I can truly say I understand what you are going through. Your Dad was a great guy and a great friend to Mom and Dad. I expect they are together today enjoying a reunion.

- Bob and Cyndi Beaumont

It is with heavy heart that I write this email. I was serving dinner to friends tonight when I received a call from Andrea Odell telling me her brother John had called with rather upsetting news about Jim. I was going to call Judy in the morning to see how things were going. Little did I know that Jim had already passed. Later, when I was in the kitchen preparing dessert, I noticed that my blackberry light was blinking. I knew then what the message would be.... I always loved Jim....well mostly always. He was like an older brother to me. I met him when I was 28 and he 38, before I was married and quite frankly, I believe that over the years we shared most of our highs and lows together - over wine and lunch. He was part of all of my life's major events. He was always interested in whatever was going on in my life. He was a great listener. He had empathy.

I remember all of the Friday lunches at the Albany Club and all of the celebrations at St. George's. I remember his faith and trust in me as a person, as a friend and as an employee. I remember dinners out with the four of us, get togethers in Florida, backyard barbeques poolside in Oakville. I remember many, many lunches at Mimico Cruising along with lovely sailing afternoons...and then motor boat tours of the Toronto Harbour. I remember so many funny things that aren't for sharing. Let's just say that Jim had an infectious "joie de vivre" that remained with him throughout his life. He never lost touch with his inner child. He was a great tease and always lucking for the fun in things. He did love, admire and respect his children so very much. I listened to his stories of pride with great interest over the years. Judy, he always placed you on a pedestal. You could do no wrong. He and I last spoke on the phone about 6 weeks ago. He told me of his latest health challenge and the infection he was fighting. I got off the phone feeling confident that he was confident about his treatment and an eventual positive resolution. I was to call him this month to arrange a dinner for the four of us at our new condo here in Toronto... not to be. I am grief stricken. We have lost a great man. He loved all who were close to him and everything good that life had to offer. He embraced it all with such passion.

He wore his health challenges well. I know he got terribly frustrated at times, as anyone would, but he tried not to dwell on his issues. I will miss him as much as anyone.

- Janet Sutherland - colleague and friend

He will be missed by everyone that ever came in contact with him. He always had a smile on his face. RIP Jim you will be missed.

- Hushy & Shari Polan

So many wonderful memories over a very long friendship. What stands out in my mind at this moment is looking over at Jim this past summer as he watched his son and grandchildren water skiing and all his family together swimming, boating and enjoying a warm, sunny Muskoka day He had tears in his eyes! He was so proud. We will miss him terribly.

- Anne and Ted Grove
Note from Jeff - this was one of the best days my boys Akira & Tets and Dad spent together - all three love Muskoka - thanks again! They still talk about it regularly. Some more photos here. xo

Jeff I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was a great man and a great friend for my grandparents. We will certainly miss him.

- Jeff Beaumont (Doug and Betty's grandson)

My memory about Jim was when I first went to Canada. He organised a big party for us and introduced me to so many of his friends (about 200). I was a bit nervous but he came and hugged me tight to say I'm proud you are my daughter in law.

- Keiko, Jeff's better half

Grandpa was always nice to visit, he was worth the 24 hour plane flight from Australia. He was always smiling and always had something positive to say.

- Tetsuya (grandson)

Jim was always nice to my brother and I. He never criticized us or yelled at us. I always had a good time when he was around. To know that Jim isn't around is very hard to cope with.

- Akira (grandson)

What a genuine and generous friend! Always welcoming, Jim boosted my spirits more times than I can remember with kind words, a warm smile, all-encompassing bear hug, and a glass or two of good wine! He made friendship a meaningful endeavour. I will miss him greatly and cherish the memories.

-Marion Vaclavik

Your Dad always sent such great e-mail jokes. I looked forward to them and though I did not see your family often, still had that connection. Somehow this e-mail with the photos reminds me of the Christmas letters he and Judy used to send out. They spoke of all the marvellous places they had visited the year before. I always wanted to send one that read- I got to Toronto, or perhaps London (Ontario)! He had many opportunities to travel on water and land, and had a wonderful life. I always enjoyed the family reunions he organized. I shall miss him.

- Cathy Groulx (first cousin) and husband Jim

When I befriended Jennifer and Bruce, back in the 80s, I was quickly embraced into their family functions. My children, who treated Sarah and Emma as cousins, were encouraged to call Jim 'Grampa Lewis', as 'Mister' seemed too formal. Jim greeted me at each visit Over the years with a hug and a kiss, and "How are you?". He wasn't to be put off by a polite 'Fine, thank you', but followed up with specific questions about my life, my kids, my work. He was a wonderful listener... and a great talker, as well. His stories - invariably including some mischievous escapades he and some 'buddies' had dreamed up - entertained and delighted. The dinner table was never too quiet. Jim was a true gentleman, and made those around him feel special by how he treated them. His absence will be felt deeply, although something tells me he will not truly be gone.

- Carol Broer (formerly Smith)

I'll always remember Uncle Jim's great big bear hugs and the fun Christmas dinners at the Lewises. Jim specialized in asking deadpan questions that would baffle me as a youngster before I realized they were jokes. It was always a relief to see him break out in a big grin! I loved to hear him play the piano during Christmas gatherings and was always impressed that he could play by ear without sheet music, a talent I still can't master.

- Jejo (Jessica) Wilson - Niece

Jim has been my big brother since I was an awkward 13 year old. Judy and Jim watched over me in my teens and have been best friends as well as family for Rick and me for the past 46 years. Our families are so bonded together that when one is in distress we herd together, each bringing what support we can . I am so proud of Judy and Jennifer and Jeff. They helped Jim through his multiple health challenges allowing him to maintain his sense of dignity to the end and to continue to stay connected with his many, many friends.

He will be missed by all our family but we have so many wonderful memories to keep him alive in our hearts.

- Nancy, Rick, Cate & Jill

Jim was always a wonderful person to be with, always enjoyed the 40+ New Years Day dinners with all the Lewis family. He will be missed.

- Dave Beaumont

One of my memories of Jim was when he came to dinner at Bruce & Jen's home when they lived in Caledonia. He asked if Jen and I would like to see "Stars on Ice." We went into Etobicoke and Jim had a lovely spread for us. As he and Bruce babysat, Jen and I went to the show and saw the ACC before Bruce did! Jim was generous to a fault and will be greatly missed.

- Carole Likely (Bruce's Auntie Carole)

Truly this is sad news and yet, from my fond but brief memories, Jim and being with him was always a celebration. Forever a smile, a warm welcome, a generosity above all! Through our Briarcrest family, Jim's sharings and contributions were such a unique and important part of arranging and reuniting staff events. Providing us with such a beautiful setting at the Mimico Cruising Club complete with hosting all on your gorgeous boat was so appreciated.....to you, Judy and to Jim, deepest thanks for all you both brought to so many. Jim will be missed but the legacy of this wonderful person will remain in the hearts of family, friends, and associates.

- Sheila Cutler

Don and I are so happy that we were able to spend time together with you Judy, and John and Ellen last October after such a long time. It was wonderful to reminisce about our days in the Royal York Condos in London where we met the "newlyweds" over fifty years ago, and taught them how to party. Jim never failed to make everyone he ever met feel comfortable and special - such good memories and such a good man.

- Don and Anne Kershaw

Please accept my sincere but inadequate expression of sorrow that I felt upon reading your email message this morning. Jim, your husband and father, was my friend who welcomed Ann and me into the world of sailing and into the camaraderie of Mimico Cruising Club. His and your friendships have been important milestones in our lives.

Having just experienced the loss of Ann, my wife of almost 60 years, I feel your loss deep within me. You are and will be in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve Jim's passing.

- Tom Shaffer

We know what a huge hole will have been created in all your lives and the lives of so many people he touched over the years. Jim will be remembered for many, many things, but to us it will be his kindness and the generosity with which he shared his love of life.

- Barry and Cathy Thomas (Mimico Cruising Club)

We are sorry for the loss of our long and dear friend Jim. We have shared with Jim & Judy many good times over the years at your home in Etobicoke, at the Yacht Club and during holidays in the Virgin Island. We especially appreciated Jim acting as our photographer at our wedding. Once you met Jim, you never forgot his warm personality!

- Gisele Davis

I hope the wonderful memories of Jim, as well as the comments of family and friends, give some comfort to you this week.

Our paths crossed again two years ago when my partner, Jim's high school friend, Don Seeback, was dying of cancer. With Don and I Jim and Judy were extremely kind, supportive, good friends. Don often said that Jim was a very loyal friend. I witnessed that myself. His kindness will never be forgotten.

- Pat Sawa

Then let us pray that, come it may,
(As come it will for all that)
That Sense and Worth o'er all the earth
Shall bear the gree and all that.
For all that and all that,
It's coming yet for all that,
That Man to Man the world o'er
Shall brothers be for all that.

- Mark McKay - Sigma Chi brother, former colleague of Jim's and close friend of Jeff

My wife Ruth and I met Jim and Judy through mutual friends, Kathy and Jack Seedhouse, several years ago and have maintained a friendship that we have valued very much ever since. A personal remembrance is when Ruth had to be moved to a nursing home after 4+ years at home, suffering from Alzheimer's/Dementia and it hit me pretty hard. Jim sensed this and drove down to Niagara to host me for lunch at one of his favourite restaurants, and a very good one too! I still treasure that memory and always will. I have an E-mail folder on my computer filled with "The Best of Jim Lewis" and often re-visit some of the "gems" contained there.

- Joel Press

Remembering Jim

We will so miss you, Jim. You will always be in our hearts.

- Love, John and Marjorie Odell

Lea and I have just heard that your Dad Jim died a few days ago. Please accept our condolences. He was a lovely guy and 75 is far too young to bugger off but we knew that he had heart problems. Losing a parent is hard to accept but we were pleased to hear, from Matt and Kirsty, that you were in the States and got up to Toronto to see him before he died.

Thinking of you old friend.

- Tim and Lea Curnow, Sydney Australia

We first met in a little Italian restaurant. John had brought me to Toronto early in our courtship to meet his family, and was desperately trying to convince me he was a good guy with normal good guy friends. Luckily for me, he chose to introduce me to his long time buddy and fellow Sigma Chi, Jim Lewis.

With much love and sadness,
Karen Laing

I'm still in shock over the suddenness of Jim's passing. After such a lovely afternoon in Wine Country, which he seemed to thoroughly enjoy, it's difficult to believe Jim is really gone.

- Erika Heim

Very sad to hear that Jim, our good friend, has left us. We have spent many hours together with Jim & Judy going back over 50 years when we met in London at a pool party. We had many get-togethers over the years in Caledon at the Church's, camping holidays, cottaging, dinners and lunches at each other's house. When you were with Jim you were always guaranteed to have fun and good times.

- Ellen & John Duggan

I am overwhelmed by a deep sadness at the loss of Jim, a man whose friendship I respected and cherished. I started working for Jim on April 15, 1974 and without fail, Jim would contact me every year on that date. He also never forgot my birthday and I always knew that no matter what was going on, I would hear from him on those two days. In recent years, we were in contact via email and it will be very strange to open my email and not find one of his jokes or something informative. I will miss that.

Lovingly Remembered,
Gerri Dinelle - friend and former colleague

For me, there is no specific moment that says more than another. There is only this: Jim never - ever - made me feel like anything less than family.

- Michael Sardine

We were so shocked and saddened to receive your e-mail and want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

- Ruth & Ferg McKee

The memories of Uncle Jim that stand out most for me are the observations he made, and could make brilliantly and with gentle wit, regarding almost any situation. There would be the observation, underscored with mock seriousness, followed by a huge smile. Thanks Jim.

- Sarah, Julian, William, and Bob (Culham)

So sad to hear about Jim, what a great friend for over 50 years. Memories on top of memories; Curt and Roma's farm, houseboat excursions, Indy500 in his TR3, cruising on Lake Ontario, and last but not least, our best man at our wedding. We will never forget Judy, your visit here last summer to celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary. Special times with special friends.

- Sharon and Bruce

I am so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. I knew something was wrong because his e-mails had dried up and I always looked forward to seeing 6-7 e-mails every day. I do hope that he didn't suffer too much. I also talked to him on skype when he wasn't sleeping and was up at 2.00 a.m. He was a good friend and I enjoyed seeing him the last time I was in Toronto. He will be sadly missed by you all and all his many friends. Do hope Judy is managing okay. Please give her a hug from me and tell her how sorry I am.

- Christine Smith alias (Stow)!!

I feel very lucky to have met Jim when he visited Australia. Being within his company I was instantly enriched by Jim's kind, warm and engaging aura. Jim was unique and the world is a lesser place without him.

- Claire & Graham Lamb (Sydney, Australia)

Jim was bigger than life itself with a tremendous heart of gold. Nothing was more powerful than his bear hugs.

- Miriam Rasche

I received the news of your dad's passing early Saturday morning. Although it didn't come as a shock, it did come with great sadness.

- Ron Hornby

What a kind and cheerful light has gone out of our lives! We have such fond memories of two young couples living side by side in the townhouses facing Rathburn Road and sharing the joy of our first children. Jennifer and Ken frequently shared a playpen while their mothers talked over coffee or tended to family chores. On the weekends Jim and I often slipped away for a round of golf with Doug Beaumont.

- Lynn and Allan Headrick

We, George Wallace, Rubie Wallace & son Greg Wallace thank you for informing us of the sad loss of a great friend Jim Lewis and feel strongly for the great loss to Judy, Jennifer and Jeff .

- George Wallace

The news re your Dad's passing was a shock yet we had hoped to see him and Judy again soon - had a couple of lunches with them in Burlington over the past two years. I have some very warm memories of Jim and my Uncle Barney - only and younger sibling of my Dad - and Auntie Ruth. It was, for me, always more fun at their house than ours - more music, good food, laughter and all of it things - good!. I had my first and almost only - motorcycle ride with your dad - no one will remember that!. We - my brother John and I - will be at the visitation tomorrow. Meantime, all sympathies to you and Jennifer.

Mary Helps

We are saddened to hear of Jim's passing and extend our sympathy to his family. Time spent on the MCC Board when Jim was Commodore was particularly memorable! We will always have fond memories of time spent together such as our Boating Vacation in the BVI ( Jim was the Captain and we were crew!), trips to St Martin, Florida and as always, Jim's presence around MCC. We are so glad that Jim was our friend.

Rick & Janet Broomer

Nick and I always found Jim to be most helpful and generous with his time and always a pleasant down to earth kind of guy. We will always remember Jim with great fondness.

Nick and Karen Kozarevich

On Aug. 57 when Jim and I were still in our bachelor days, he heard about a big dance being held around Huntsville and he persuaded Howard and myself to accompany him and we would camp in the perfect spot. We arrived after dark and we had to set up tents on mucky ground. I awakened in the middle of the night to a rivulet of water flowing through the middle of the tent. Jim called the shots and we decided to stay put. I was pretty grumpy by dawn but emerged from the tent to a grinning Jim. Jim had already started breakfast. What could I do but smile back.
RIP dear friend.

- Al Evans

Our fondest memories of Jim are the wonderful times spent with he and Judy escaping winter in Florida - especially aboard Nattygirl. How sad this was curtailed by degenerating health issues. Yet Jim resolutely faced these and did the very best he could to enjoy life to the fullest.

- Dave & Annie Hepburn

Jim was always so pleasant, even the months he had of pain from his legs. he still managed a smile & call you Sweetie

- Maureen Tupper Apt. 403.

With his deteriorating health in recent years, Jim must have known this was coming, but I never heard him complain. A gentleman to the end.

- Andrew Waller

Our earliest memories are of sailing with the Lewis family... My dad and Jim working the sails together - all the kids legs hanging over the high side of the boat... And lots of laughter. I have fond memories of spending time together in Sydney Australia at Jeff' house when we happened to be across the world at the same time. And most recently last summer for a wonderful day at our cottage in Muskoka. Jim was a very dear friend of our parents and we were lucky to have many great memories that include him over the last 40 years.

Our love goes out to Jeff, Jennifer and Judy... Know that Jim lives on in all of our memories.

- Love Meredith Grove with sisters Whitney and Lindsay

Like all you who were on Jim's special email list, Toni and I were shocked and saddened to learn that we had lost Jim. I told Jennifer that the mornings would be especially difficult for us. It was a ritual to get up and go through the morning messages from Jim.

Toni and I returned to Canada from Italy in Dec. 1982 and settled in Etobicoke. I first met Jim at the Etobicoke Olympium recreation center in 1983 or 1984 and he, Don Morton and I soon became the best of buddies. Don and I would go for a jog in the mornings and often Jim would be holding seats for us at Tim Horton's.

We shared so many wonderful adventures. The picnics and boat trips while they were members of the Mimico Club were always special.

We enjoyed many great dinners and bridge nights. Judy is a wonderful cook and hostess. When I retired in 2002 we left Canada and moved to Pensacola. We have tried every year since 2002 to visit with Jim and Judy both in Canada and here in Florida when they were able to make the Spring trip down here. What wonderful visits we had in Pensacola, Ft. Lauderdale, Key West (photo attached of Hot Tin Restaurant) and Canada.

In 2004 we spent the Christmas season in Toronto and went over to Carsbrooke Road to have dinner. I will never forget the snowstorm that night. Driving was horrible and we were saved by good food, wine and company. We don't know how we got back to our hotel.

For the last few years Jim and Judy would take us on drives through the wine areas near Burlington and have lunches at their favorite spots.

Jim had health challenges all the years we shared and he was always cheerful and positive. When we had our house destroyed by Hurricane Ivan in 2004, Jim was among the first to call us. When I had a minor stroke a few weeks ago, Jim called several times to give me encouragement. He was always there when I needed to talk. Our lives were enriched by knowing Jim and he will be missed.

- Michael and Toni Cullen - Pensacola

To All the Lewis Family, my sincere condolence.

I am sitting here at my office desk now reading the notice, and cannot hold back the tears. Jim was a great (though sometimes trying) boss to me, and long after he had retired and I had gone on to other offices, he was still "the Boss" to me. He was a great mentor and it always brought me great happiness to continue to get e-mail birthday cards from Jim and Judy after all these years.

In reading through the on-line condolences, I see many names from long ago when I was working for Jim. I think half our business was due to Jim's friendships over the years! I am happy to see that they continue today.

- Margaret Johnston, Past Employee

Jim was a beautiful spirit, a caring husband and a devoted father who never passed up an opportunity to praise his children and grandchildren.

He was the kind of friend that would immediately greet you with a big bear hug and was always available to engage in conversation, impart his wisdom, or make you smile. His daily communications were either thought provoking or charmingly witty but always a delight. Our fondest memories of Jim are sitting at the D Dock picnic tables while he demonstrated his BBQ mastery and the rest of us drank his wine. He has enriched the life of everyone who knew him and he will be sadly missed.

Farewell, my friend,
Terri Guthrie (MCC member)

It's a testament to Uncle Jim's energy and communicative skills that he was able to hold a "conversation" with my wife's parents, who are both monolingual Japanese, at our wedding in 1993. It was the first time my in-laws were outside of Japan and they were feeling nervous. The bride and groom were too busy to take care of them, so Jim did his very best at entertaining them. Somehow they managed to keep conversing (without really understanding each other) for quite a long time. I'll never forget my uncle's sense of humour and his will to show others a great time.
RIP Uncle Jim.

xo Ian

We are both so very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He had a kind and generous soul, and a great sense of humour. We have many fond memories on your boat, the Cariad, cruising the Toronto Harbour and exploring the Toronto islands, on our boat, cruising Vancouver Harbour and Howe Sound, golfing at St. Georges, our dinners, parties, and visits, and mostly, the wonderful times we spent at the curling rink.

The Jim Lewis Bonspiel introduced me to the world of bonspiels....and what fun it was! Those events were wonderful and organizing those spiels were such a pleasure. Even when things didn't go smoothly, Jim rolled with the punches, and was always a gentleman. There was always a joke or funny anecdote to keep us laughing.

We are going to miss you, Jim. To Judy and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

With love and sympathy,
Cindy and Bob McGlashan

Very sad to hear the news as the world has lost a bright star.

My most significant memory of Jim is what a gracious and jovial person he was. Judy mirrors that and it is reflected in you and Jennifer as well an aura of positiveness, success and zest for life exudes from you all.

When I greet people first thing in the day, I often say "Good Morning Sunshine!" and I realize that is because that is often how Jim would give a salutation. I am sure he has been welcomed whole-heartedly in the place of ever-present light, peace, music and gentle laughter.

Thinking of all of you and will see you Thursday.

love,
Briar Boake

I was soooo saddened to receive this e-mail as Jim was a great friend to all of us at The Good Earth. I am happy that we were able to re-connect after what was clearly a difficult winter for Jim. He was in good spirits and looking forward to the arrival of Spring.

From all of us at The Good Earth, please accept out heartfelt condolences at this very sad loss. Please don't be strangers and visit us again when your hearts are less burdened.

With fondness and in sympathy to you all!

Nicolette Novak
The Good Earth Food and Wine Co.

Your dad will always be in the hearts of staff and members at the EO fitness club.

Jim was a valued early morning member at the Etobicoke Olympium fitness Club for many years.

His smile, charm and humour was missed by staff and members when he moved to Burlington. After his move, many of us enjoyed his never ending emails filled with wit and wisdom. Jim had a fabulous memory, always remembering to send e-cards to many of us for all the annual occasions.

Jim was a thoughtful, kind, and caring man.

Today and always, may loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.

with deepest sympathy
Susan Francella, Donna Winter, and the staff and members of the Etobicoke Oympium Fitness club

Dear Judy, Jeff, Jennifer and family: So sorry to hear about Jim. My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to all of you. Fond memories of Jim, Judy and Cariad our neighbours and friends at MCC. Jim was always there to catch the lines, lend a hand or share an amusing anecdote. We had great sailing trips, great fun, great food, great laughs and perhaps a wee bit of wine. Jim was a wonderful person, has left a mark on my heart and I am sure he will be missed by all.

- Jill Artibello (Peterborough)

Our thoughts are with you all at this sad time, we will miss him a lot.

- Duncan and Sue

John & I were saddened to receive the email about Jim's passing. We remember all the good times we had together with Jim & Judy at St Georges', curling, bonspiels or working on committees.

A few years ago John & I were visiting our daughter in London England, we visited her friends in the countryside and were so surprised to meet a Canadian couple, Jim's sister, Marian & husband, of course Jim heard before we arrived home, I will always remember the smile he had and how happy he was that we had met his sister in England, such a small world.

Judy, Jennifer and Jeff and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Jim will be missed

- Joan & John Matheson

Our sincere and heartfelt condolences go out to you and your whole family, having been truly saddened with the news of the premature passing of truly the nicest fellow ever to be a member at Mimico Cruising Club - Commodore Jim Lewis. You and Jim were the very first people we met at the club in 1985 when you interviewed us in preparation for membership. You were both generous and sharing with your warm welcome and info that was so appreciated by us as wet-behind-the-ears newbies :o) We quickly found you were that way with everyone, in the most personal and sincere way. Although we were never 'close' or socialized a lot together, Jim always felt like a friend and made us feel very special - you both welcomed us with open arms, during those early years and ever since. We'd always make sure we went to Jim to have him pour the yummy rum punch at Sailpast as the Past Commodore's treated us to as many glasses as we wished - and somehow, Jim's were always the fullest! Thanks for all the loving and caring hugs through the years - RIP dear friend - there is no doubt a very special place in heaven for you! You will be missed everywhere since you touched so many people.

Loving Hugs,
Cathy & Gord Evanoff
'Green With Envy'

Jim was a warm and friendly person. I felt happy being a friend of Jim's.

Jim had a wonderful sense of humour and he had a good attitude about life. I will miss Jim but am the better for having known him.

Rest in peace Jim.

- Vern Ackland

Jim was always so cheerful, and although we didn't see each other often, we always had fun catching up on what our families were doing. Whenever we got together as a family, he made sure everyone was included and would make a point of having a good long chat with each of us, one to one. He took the initiative to arrange for family reunion get togethers to make sure we stayed connected and I really appreciated this. I am so shocked and saddened by his sudden death. He will be sorely missed by his family, of course, but he will also be missed by everyone who knew him.

Lis and Glenn DiPasqualie

Jim's big hug, his big smile, his sometimes not too funny jokes and of course the way he always made everyone feel so special. I will always remember Jim with great fondness. Best love. Pat Owen

Pat Owen

Nothing can be added to the wonderful words already written other than to say,

We think of you in silence
But often speak your name.
Till we meet again.

Ken & Mary Maxwell
M.C.C.

For too few years we knew Jim at Mimico Cruising Club as Dock mates. A man you could not help but love. Ever smiling and always up for a "chat".
Our Condolences and Prayers To Judy and His Family at this difficult time.
He WILL be missed.

Dave and Brenda Brand

Our thoughts and condolences go to Judy, Jennifer and Jeff at this very sad time. Reading all of the wonderful tributes to date leaves little else to be said but we will miss Jim enormously and will always have happy memories of his engaging character, his sincere generosity, his humour and his love of Mimico Cruising Club. We only really got to know Jim when he moved Cariad to the North Shore where he would hold court at his picnic table and always exchange a few words with anyone who passed by whether he knew them or not. Over the last decade we enjoyed some Winter evenings at Carsbrooke having dinner and playing cards which after the move, continued to be enjoyed in Burlington.

Bon voyage Jim, and rest in peace.

Patrick & Eugenie (Members at MCC)

JOHN AND I ARE WISHING YOU RAINBOWS, BUTTERFLIES, SONGBIRDS AND BRIGHT BLUE SKIES AHEAD.
GENTLY, QUIETLY MAY PEACE AND HAPPINESS FALL SOFTLY INTO YOUR WORLDS.
ALWAYS KNOW THAT LOVE AND LIGHT SURROUNDS YOU.
LOVE AND OUR BLESSINGS.

JOHN AND BEV

Every Christmas I looked forward to Jim's visit to our Quilt shop to purchase Christmas gifts for Judy. He always made me laugh, such a lovely man. I know he'll be missed terribly by all his family and friends. My thoughts are with you and your family Judy.

Leslie Edell

My deepest condolences at the loss of your beloved Jim, Husband, Dad, Grandpa and Friend. My thoughts are with you all.

I will always be grateful to Jim for so many things, his friendship, mentoring, loyalty, laughter, guidance and support. From the first tine we met, when Jim interviewed me for membership at St. Georges's, I knew he was someone I could always depend on.

As a new curler, Jim offered to help me to learn the game, he gave me his time, shared his expertise and taught me to truly understand and really enjoy curling. It was also through curling that I met Judy and we enjoyed many years curling Business Women together.

When my late husband Kearney and I decided to purchase a boat in 1985, Jim and Judy encouraged us to look at Mimico Cruising Club, that we loved at first sight, and they sponsored our membership. At Mimico, Jim gave his all, to us personally and to the entire membership. Not only when he was Commodore but always unselfishly is so many other ways.

I will dearly miss our phone chats, his big welcoming smile with the twinkle in his eye, his bear hugs, his laugh, his friendship and so much more. The world has truly lost 'one of the good guys' who has left a legacy for the special man that he was. Rest in Peace my Friend,

June Moyle

I met Jim at MCC probably 15 years ago and got to know him better while I was treasurer of the MCC Board. A few minutes of conversation with Jim were all I needed to know to be assured that MCC's insurance programs were in the hands of an amazingly knowledgeable and competent professional.

He wrote the contract wording himself and set up the coverage using his many contacts with the London insurance market. MCC's ability to get the best coverage possible was the direct result of the hard to win respect and trust accorded him by Canadian and international insurance and reinsurance markets.

His guidance to me, provided willingly by an experienced past Commodore to a rookie Commodore, was much appreciated, welcome, acted upon ..... and needed!

MCC has lost one of its most devoted competent and supportive members.

Ron & Linda Meredith-Jones

I met Jim, Judy, Jennifer, and Jeff when they became our neighbours and friends many years ago. We enjoyed many fun activities together, biking, sailing, barbecues, and social outings etc.

Jim and I worked on home projects together. One of special interest was to surround our properties with cedar hedging. Jim's idea was that we go to his father-in-law's large "fish farm" property and dig up hundreds of cedar seedlings and transplant them around the properties. So we cheerfully went with our boat trailer and cheerleaders (wives) to dig. Our enthusiasm waned somewhat after we were about half completed and so we celebrated the finishing of the task with a great barbecue. That was our first and last major home project Jim suggested. Preparing our boats for launch was more appealing.

Jim and Judy were very supportive and helpful when I was widowed and when I married Audrey 15 years ago.

Having Jim as a close friend was a privilege. He will always be remembered for being "special Jim".

Even though we were next door neighbours we respected each other's privacy and never intruded. However, we were there for each other voluntarily or as needed.

Judy we will always be here for you.

Bruce & Audrey Gilbert

Bill and I have a heavy heart with the passing of Jim, he was such as wonderful friend. Our memory box is full of joyous times sailing across Lake Ontario, Jim at the helm, Bill and Judy working and I was the perfect deck fluff, I just moved on command from side to side, dinners at the dock with friends at the Yacht Club.

Years of Little Christmas dinners, evening spent over Judy’s delicious cooking sharing wine and conversation and times at the cottage, Jim forever looking for WIFI access. So many great times together.

To Judy, Jennifer and Jeff and their families our prayers and thoughts are with you.

We will miss Jim.

Love and Hugs Donna, Bill, Jennie and D’Arcy

As you may already know, the great American Poet, Maya Angelou, passed away in approximately the same time frame as Jim. Her poems and quotes have been so poignant over her lifetime and the one that fits so well with Judy and Jim is as follows:

People will forget what you have said People will forget what you have done but people will never forget you you made them feel.

We will always remember your generous and welcoming nature. One of me most favourite memories will always be that of Judy and Jim when we arrived at the boat on Friday evening. We would hear from Judy or Jim, "Come on over, we've got lots" and over we would go, never contributing that much, but have a great evening and around the picnic table and the barbecue. Those days will never be repeated - we were always so proud to be included.

Jim introduced me to the QAGS at St George's and bridge on the weekends. We served on many committees at MCC representing the club. He was a true friend that I could always count on. Hopefully he felt the same about me.

Jim Southcott